You’re everyone’s go to person.

Except your own.

Let’s change that. Therapy for women’s mental health, anxiety, relationships, and people pleasing.

Hi, I’m Dr. Kayla Sykes

I'm a California licensed psychologist offering specialized therapy to help anxious women navigate relationship anxiety, people-pleasing, and women’s mental health.

Most of my clients are women who look like they have it all together. They're thoughtful, caring, self-aware. But underneath, they're exhausted from overgiving in their relationship and keeping score, or they want connection but keep avoiding dating because opening up feels terrifying.

You're not broken. You're just protecting yourself. And that protection isn't serving you anymore.

I bring warmth, honesty, and humor to therapy and I won't let you people-please your way through our sessions. I'd love to hear what brings you here.

I can help you

Build the secure love you’ve always wanted
Set boundaries without the guilt
Navigate life’s transitions as a woman
Break the cycle and rebuild real connection
Reclaim your life from burnout
Parent from choice, not old patterns
Woman in peaceful moment of reflection - therapy for relationship anxiety and people-pleasing

Does this sound familiar?

You're exhausted from overgiving in your relationships

You give more than you receive and resent it silently

You need constant reassurance but never feel reassured

You keep score because asking feels impossible

You want connection but avoid dating

You're convinced something is wrong with you

Opening up feels more terrifying than staying lonely

You feel like your partner's mother, not their equal

You're not broken. You're protecting yourself.

And that protection isn't serving you anymore.

I have experience and success in helping people with:

Dating Anxiety

Communication

Life Transitions

Parenting (Young and Adult Children)

Tech Burnout

Father Wounds & Partner Selection

Difficulties with Parents

Trauma

Women’s Mental Health

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Follow along on Instagram where I share what I see in my practice every day: the anxious attachment, dating anxiety, and boundary struggles that so many women live with quietly, explained without the jargon.


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